Freaks, geeks, losers, stalkers & the like

 

I am finally home & settled in after Mardi Gras 2012. Holy shit that was a good time! After a fantastic few days I am nursing a sun burn, blistered feet but surprisingly, no hang over.  I stayed away from Bourbon Street, opting for more low key gatherings mostly thrown by locals.  I met some interesting & unique characters along the way. There are SO many parades every year, one would have to be crazy to try to attend them all.  I have a select few that I insist on seeing no matter what.  I love Zulu. It is by far My very favorite.  For those of you who are not familiar with the Krewe of Zulu there is a great article here.  In My opinion this parade has the greatest sense of community.  I watched as a marching band stopped so that a very proud father could have his photo taken with his son who was playing in the band.  The area I watched from this year, I move around every year, was packed with parade patrons young and old.   All around us people were making (and eating!) fantastic food.  I was very well received in My mermaid costume.  I got the feeling not many had seen a heavily tattooed white girl dressed as a mermaid before :-) I made friends with the sweetest little girl, we were a unparalleled bead & coconut snatching team, catching 6 coconuts! Woot! Wondering what this talk of coconuts is all about? you didn’t click the link & read the article did you?

While I was AFK, I had time to think.  I am bored with cam sites and have been for some time.  I would love to cut them out completely but I simply cannot afford the lifestyle I am accustom to without the income they generate.

So, what’s a Girl to do? Well, I’ve decided to spend more time on clips & assignments.  I have a little notebook I carry with Me everywhere. Whenever I have a dirty little thought, OK… not every time, but when I have one I think would translate well to video or assignment, I scribble it down on paper.  This little notebook has pages FULL of ideas but I want to hear from you.  That’s right, I want your ideas.  I am not much for the opinions of assholes but I appreciate the male mind as it relates to kink.

When it comes to custom clip requests, I usually charge a fee.  From now until the end of March I am inviting all of you to submit your ideas for clips & assignments. I don’t mean to say give Me completed scripts & step by step assignments.  Simply, I would like to hear your ideas. I know that you guys are an endless supply of dirty thoughts. Since My dirty thoughts tend to include only My very favorite fetishes & kinks, I would like to hear you out.  What would you like to see? What haven’t you seen? What are you dying to hear Me say? What sort of assignments interest you? Is there a type of assignment you would like to see? If it sounds like fun, I will give it a go. :-) This very same thought process is how I discovered My love for standing & jumping on male genitals at the tender age of 16!

Contact Me here or via NiteFlirt with your ideas. I look forward to hearing from you.

 

Happy 2012!

So, it’s the New Year & W/we are all still here! lol.

Personally, I like the new beginning & the prospect of all things to come. Specifically the number of new submissives/slaves that it will inevitably bring My way.  Many of those who have been lurking will finally find inspiration to come into the light, to step up and impress Me with their need to earn My attention.

As I sit here now, watching Carnival, wearing this vintage slip, with delivery on its way & My bill fold full of cash I am thankful and also excited at what the coming year holds for those that currently serve Me.

Jasmine has been working SO hard to stand out.  I couldn’t be happier with her effort & progress. O/our relationship is a deep connection. Since she found M, Jasmine  has lavished Me with gifts (several vintage slips, heels, DVD’s, loads of stuff from Urban Outfitters, a kick ass Swatch, Vinyl, make-up & I am sure there is other stuff I left off).  Of course she also sends $$$ for session payment & just because.  she expects nothing but in return received guidance, acceptance, Someone to listen & most of all understanding.

I am not One who believes that all submissives/slaves need to be/will benefit from being ridiculed, humiliated, verbally chastised & treated like shit in general.  I know that My gentle but strict style is exactly what some boys need.

I often ask My pets/subs/slaves if they have any “questions, comments or concerns for Me”.  I think this is some of My corporate America lingering. lol. I ask this because an open line of communication is just important now as is was back in the land of skirt suits & knee high 6 in boots. ;-) That is an entirely different blog post for another day. Recently, W/we (Jasmine & I) discussed the the possibility of her making a full m/F transformation. Of course this would be far off in the future but exciting none the less.  she also mentioned that she does not like the negative undertones of the term “sissy”.  I have given much thought to this.  I have decided that Jasmine will no longer be sissy; she will now be “pet”.  Of course if she slips up, I will call her by this sissy name that makes her cringe, I will make her write line after line of her “sissy name”, I may even make her sing a little sissy song for youtube, probably all three and anything else My sick mind comes up with.

How Best to be of Service.

Those of you who are new to the online world of distance training and those who have served Women who have a different style than Myself ask, “What should i expect from session with You?”  First I laugh, your expectations? lol. Have you not read ANY of the text I put out in the world?  Before I discuss what you may experience during session with Me, let U/us first go over what I expect from you.

1. I expect to see that you have purchased My Rules and read them.  If you have questions, do your research. Google is an excellent tool.  I am much more likely to respond to your message if you have done your homework.

2. Present a selfless desire to serve and benefit Me.  There are many ways in which you can make yourself useful.  My favorite would be regular tributes (weekly, bi-weekly, monthly). However, I know that this sort of servitude is not possible for everyone.  As long as W/we share common interests, you are polite and ready to pay for session time (no freebies) I do not require regular tributes.

3.  If you are looking for a quick wank, chances are I am not the Domina for you.  Watching you selfishly wank does nothing for Me.  There are literally 10’s of thousands of Women on the Internet who are ready and willing to be that for you.  Please move on.

4.  Be prepaired.  If I am so kind as to grant you session time, make sure that you have any and all play things, tools, naughty little bits, whatever you call them ready BEFORE session.

Now, a little more about session with Me.  Just as no two people are the same, each session is unique. In the world of Distance Training it is important that your expectations are realistic.  Be ready to follow My directions & perform for Me.  I am the Goddess that you crave. The Women of your dreams.  The only way to get closer to Me is to do as you are told, always be on your best behavior and be ready to pay for My time.  I prefer to build a repoire with you.  I want to not only have play sessions but also expand your understanding of yourself and your kink by asking questions.  For Myself, it is important to develop an understanding of your limits and interests.  In My opinion, this should be standard behavior but often times submissives are surprised when I start session by asking questions.  I want to get inside that head of yours, the one atop your shoulders and believe Me, session will be much more exciting for both of U/us when you come ready to confess.  

I know you are excited for session.  Trust that I am anticipating session as well. Especially when you have taken the time to read more about who I am, what I require and how I want things.  There are only so many submissive males in this online world who possess the qualities I seek.  When one finds his way to Me, I am ready to pounce.

 

Southern Decadence 2011

Red Heels

If you are or long to be out and proud then chances are you have at least heard of the Southern Decadence Festival. The party that started in 1972 has grown from a group of friends dressing up as their favorite decadent southern characters, parading and partying until the wee hours of Labor Day morning has gromn into a spectacular event that draws some 110,000 people, mostly gay and lesbian, and contributes almost $125 million dollars to the tourist industry.

I am sure most of you have heard of Tropical Depression 13 by now. I am sitting here in My big beautiful New Orleans home listening to it pour outside with a glass of malbec in My pretty little hand. ;-) In My opinion the Tropical Depression is both good and bad. On the up side that “unreachable” marsh fire that has been buring for days, leaving a nasty funk in the air, is no longer an issue. The downside, this weekend is Southern Decadence. I have been in the Quarter, people watching a few times this weekend and the crowd is not what I had expected. Hopefully tonight will be better.

I support gay and lesbian rights. I do not consider Myself bi-sexual though I have been in a few relationships, long term committed relationships not flings, with Women. I would like to make it out to some of the drag shows this weekend, any excuse to dress like a drag queen is good enough for Me. This rain needs to go away long enough that W/we can all get out and enjoy this party! *shakes fist at sky*

I love being here in New Orleans. So much so that when I am away for more than a few weeks I get so terribly home sick that I know I am no fun to be around. I am in love with the music, the sunshine, the people, the food, the culture. I feel an undertow when I leave. It is like the city is calling to Me, beckoning Me to come home. Home it is and home it shall be.

This post is different than the others.  Enjoy this rare glimpse into My life.

But remember, you must make yourself useful.  you must earn My attention.  The only way to do so is to spend.  Go to NiteFlirt, tribute, purchase My Slave application and beg Me to rape your wallet.  Beg Me to take it all.  All your cash, pervert. your dick has no worth here.  I want regular tributes; weekly, bi-weekly, monthly scheduled tributes.  Just filling out the application with your good intentions and wanna be BS talk is not enough. I want action.